|
There is a gurdwara
I know - very big and very rich. And the mortgage is huge.
So the management decided to raise some serious funds, not
penny ante stuff.
The local Sikh community has some people with obscene amounts
of money and they have contributed generously. Now the management
wants to put up a magnificent slab of marble listing the names
of the fat cats and their donations. This would be a permanent
marker. Generations will see it. All visitors would pay symbolic
homage to these Sikh powerhouses as they walk past it to enter
the building. In fact, they will do so before bowing their
heads to the Guru Granth.
The idea has been bothering me ever since it was floated
a few weeks ago. My thoughts crystallized somewhat because
the talk has now turned serious. The plaque may be erected
soon.
Today I am going to put down my reasons pro and con and hope
my readers will help me make up my mind.
I can think of three arguments why a plaque honoring the
donors seems like a good idea and this the right time for
it.
It is not really a novel concept. Look at the major gurdwaras
in Punjab. Visit the holiest Sikh gurdwara - Golden Temple
at Amritsar. The atrium and the walkway are studded with marble
slabs etched with the names of donors. I remember seeing names
of army regiments, industrialists and individuals from as
far back as the First World War.
I have seen gurdwaras in North America bearing plaques in
honor of those who had donated substantially. I hasten to
add that some of these plaques - like the one at the Sikh
Cultural Society Gurdwara in Richmond Hills, New York - have
since been removed.
A third supporting argument contends that a prominent plaque
will spur others to donate. There is nothing like peer pressure,
some shame and a little envy to motivate people. And we do
need the money.
Now, I believe that these arguments, plausible as they are
and attractive, are not entirely convincing.
Obviously the plaque will bear the names of only those who
give will a certain minimum amount. There must be a bar; how
high you set the bar is immaterial and irrelevant. A bar exists
to separate those who qualify for the honor from those who
do not. Do we not then create a society stratified on economic
class? Is this not contrary to the fundamentals of Sikhism?
Historically the gurdwara and particularly the langar exist
to demonstrate and construct a classless and caste free society.
Would we not be defeating this base objective of our religion?
Let us take a simple example to illustrate the absurdity.
If a man makes a million dollars, donating 20,000 of them
would not be a significant hardship. And of course he would
earn a place on the marble. If another person makes only $20,000,
donating even $200 might mean a significant sacrifice; even
then it will surely not earn him an etching on the plaque.
I know a family that serves in the langar ever day that
the gurdwara has a langar. They arrive early and spend much
of their time laboring over the hot stove. Their names would
be missing from the wall of honor. Another man has become
reasonably successful, but by no means wealthy, contractor
in the construction trade. He donates his sweat and labor
for much needed construction in the gurdwara. His seva must
be worth several thousand dollars. His donation is not in
cash and, therefore, remains uncounted.
Years ago when we had no gurdwara building in New York, we
used to meet for our service every Sunday in the basement
of a church school. The night before - Saturday - the basement
was often used for parties, and Sunday morning the hall would
be strewn with beer cans, cigarette butts and plastic or paper
garbage. Our service started at 11 in the morning but one
couple always arrived an hour earlier to broom-clean the hall.
Their contribution was not in cash but in seva; the marble
plaque would never discover their names. Then there are others
who make only a perfunctory appearance at the gurdwara, perhaps
once a year, but who send a reasonably large check, perchance
at the advice of their tax accountants. And these movers and
shakers will surely be on the marble.
A plaque will shift the emphasis away from the sangat to
a chosen few. It is the pennies and dollar bills of the sangat
that make a gurdwara. Large donations and plaques establish
a club, a university chair or a hospital.
Forex Pro
Is this what the Gurus intended? This stress on money reminds
me of the sakhi about a poor Sikh who was ashamed to offer
his kaudi (perhaps equivalent to a penny) to the Guru but
that is all he had. Guru Arjan, however, spurned all kinds
of rich offerings from others, and instead approached the
Sikh for his penny. There is also the parable from the life
of Guru Nanak. The Guru walked away from the rich but dishonestly
earned repast of Malik Bhago and preferred to break bread
with the honest but poor Lalo. I emphatically do not mean
here that the rich donors to the gurdwara have come about
their money by less than honest means. What I wish to suggest
is that the Guru did not pay any mind to the size or quality
of Malik Bhago's possessions; the criterion remained dedication
and loyalty to Sikh teaching.
In the final analysis what does it mean to have our name
inscribed on a wall at the entrance to a gurdwara? Is it not
an extension of our ever-present ego? I recognize that we
are almost continuously ego-driven, at work or at home. Must
we also bring its baggage into the gurdwara? If we do, the
connection to our inner self that we are seeking will not
occur. Then why go the gurdwara? If the sangat in a gurdwara
is going to be riven by economic class, where are humans to
be equal in the eyes of God and Guru? I would like to see
the granthi of the gurdwara enter the fray and address the
issues directly, not sit quietly.
I know that during their high holy days, in some Jewish denominations,
worshippers can purchase seats in the synagogue for the service.
Better seats cost more. And that becomes a very effective
means for fund raising. This, I need not add, is decidedly
not the Sikh way.
Keep in mind that it is easier for a camel to pass through
the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the gates
of heaven.
|